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Himanshu Roy

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This Alternative To ‘Female Viagra’ Can Boost Your Sex Life

  • JWB Post
  •  December 18, 2015

 

Why should boys have all the fun?

Yup, this is the question that was the buzzword, when Addyi, a drug prepared to boost the female libido was launched in August. A pill first of its kind, Addyi ended the virtual monopoly of men when it comes to enhancing the sexual appetite.

But now it appears that people are not so eager to buy it after all and in its very first month, the figures show a drop in demand.

This is in contrast to the time when Viagra was released back in 1998. In no time, scores of men, all of them eager to get some action and to heighten the pleasure in the bedroom, decided to go for the drug.

So what if the case is a little different for women? Maybe, unlike men, they don’t need a pill to boost their sexual desire after all. Here are six ways according to some of the leading experts in the field that can help women to have awesome sex lives, and that too without any pills!

Reinventing sex education – Sexuality Educator Beverly Damelin says that in the ambiguous biology lessons in which mostly the precautionary aspects of sex such as STDs and contraception are discussed, there should also be a chapter on sexual pleasure. Just an errant thought- Why is it that there is hardly any textbook that discusses that instead of being ‘painful’ sex should be pleasurable for women?

Medical training – Author Emily Nagoski feels that doctors need to have a more casual approach towards sex. It means that when a patient comes to your clinic with concerns that he/she is experiencing problems in their sex lives, a medic should try understanding themselves better before prescribing a medicine. She believes that it often happens that people end up taking medication for a sex relates issue when all that was needed was a good counseling session.

Know your clitoris – Author and sex advisor Rebbeca Chalker thinks that if women are more about their sexual organs, more control can be mastered over the sex life. And from where to begin? Well, the clitoris is a great place to start from! It is the clitoris that has the most important role when a member of the fairer sex engages in sexual intercourse. So the more you understand about the functioning of the clitoris you also get the chance to make sex more fun.

Look beyond orgasm – Okay folks, we know that orgasm is important, but there are indeed tons of ways to have awesome sex when you take your focus off the word orgasm in the traditional sense. Sex and relationships coach Dawn Serra thinks that it is this clichéd idea about orgasm that most often plays spoilsport in the bedroom. So instead of thinking orgasm as the only goal of sex, try to concentrate on what is pleasurable at the moment. Things like genital and nongenital touch, sexual thinking and fantasies can prove to be nothing less fun than orgasm.

Freezing eggs– Although much debated, but this is also an option. Sex therapist and professor Constance Quinn thinks that the enjoyable aspect of sex is often left in the lurch in the search of women for the perfect person who will be an ideal father of their child. Now, freeing your eggs will help you do away with such worries, and you can consider flings and meeting new persons a possibility without being bothered about their qualities as a potential father to your child.

Feminism– Aha here is perhaps the best antidote to taking pills for boosting your libido. Psychologist Lindday Jernigan feels that if your partner is also open-minded as you, then there is high chance that you will have a rocking sex life. Beyond all compromises that are often needed to stop the relationship from hitting rock bottom is the idea that a feminist couple can always understand each other, and that is why, their trust will make way for experimentation, and this new interpretation of sex will make your private life nothing less than blissful.

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